SOS BOOK Chapter 65: Strategy #1. Design your destiny.



CAN WE REALLY DESIGN OUR OWN DESTINY?

At the quantum level, all potential outcomes are eventually possible. So perhaps we should be careful about what we wish for. That also includes what we dwell on. But how do we create our own destiny? Understanding how this process works will keep us on the right path. The concept of deliberate manifestation might not be familiar to us. Or it might not seem believable. It is a natural process and almost automatic! We have often taken it for granted.

LEARN TO MANIFEST YOUR WISHES!

Everyone has enormous untapped intellect, capacity & talents. If appropriately orchestrated, almost any personal destiny is possible. We could potentially manifest our greatest wish!

…Are you open to the possibility of manifesting a new reality?


We see this demonstrated in the lives of many famous people. Many celebrities are admired for their remarkable achievements. Often, it’s a ‘rags to riches’ story. They have achieved great things! But why are they so special? We are also capable of amazing talents. But this requires overcoming our own self-imposed limitations and self-sabotage. Manifesting requires a strong and intentional commitment.

THERE ARE SAFEGUARDS TO MANIFESTING.

There are some prerequisites and safeguards in the manifestation process. These safeguards stop us from creating or manifesting what we don't want. So, it helps to understand how these safeguards work. For manifestation to work, we must clearly and strongly desire the outcome. We must have a strong commitment and motivation for the outcome. This requirement is meant to deter us from manifesting a frivolous wish! But could these safeguards be limiting our success in other ways? Could these safeguards be blocking our important desires too?

DON’T FOCUS ON WHAT YOU LACK!

You may have heard the saying ‘be careful what you wish for’. Another saying is ‘don’t wish too hard for something because you may actually get it’. These sayings are important to keep in mind. That’s because the safeguards for frivolous or inappropriate manifestation can be overcome! Constant negative rumination can eventually override these safeguards. So be careful what you wish for and what you focus on! You do have the free will to create what’s NOT in our best interests! Let's explain this a little further.

…Are you focusing too much on unimportant wishes?

MAINTAIN A POSITIVE & HIGH VIBE.

Wishing ‘too hard’ for something good is not usually a big problem. The real problem is dwelling on the LACK of something. Unfortunately, dwelling on lack is a very common pattern. By dwelling on that feeling of lack, we just attract more of the same! Can you appreciate the difference in vibe that's involved? It's a big difference and this is a secret to success. Positive manifestation requires a high vibe!

…Are you attracting a high or low energy into your life?

OUR WISH OR DREAM MUST BE HEARTFELT!

To start the manifestation process, first we visualize what we really want. We must not focus on the lack of it. To really be successful, we must deeply desire a particular positive outcome. This intent must be at a heartfelt level! Without a clear intention, the manifestation process is limited or blocked. Remember, the manifestation process is designed not to act on a mere whim or transient fantasy! A powerful need or inner urge needs to arise from deep within. Ideally this will be aligned to the needs of our true inner self. In other words, we must really want it with all our heart!

FOCUS ON POSITIVE OUTCOMES.

When we are in alignment, nothing can hold this process back! But if there is doubt or a lack of commitment, the safeguards for manifestation will block it. Failure usually occurs by dwelling on our negative thoughts, or on a feeling of lack. Then we just manifest more negative outcomes!

…Are you choosing to focus on positive thoughts and outcomes?


A LOW VIBRATION JUST ATTRACTS MORE ‘LACK’.

Remember, it’s important to maintain both a powerful intent and a positive vibration. Constantly worrying about something that’s missing in our life will not manifest success. Worse still, any feeling of desperation is strongly counter-productive. The feeling of lack is associated with a low energy vibration and just attracts more lack! So, do not dwell on what you lack. Instead visualize what you DO want! You attract the energy of what you focus on. This is such an important distinction and a strategy for attracting success. What we manifest in our life is related to the vibration that we hold. The higher the vibe, the better! This is the difference between success and failure!

…Are you focusing on what you want?


COMMIT TO THE SUCCESS OF YOUR BEST DREAM!

We must be prepared to strongly commit to this grand endeavor. For each stage to work, we must agree for this change to occur in our life. We do this by inviting this process to unfold and welcome the change. That is a prerequisite for success and is required to overcome the safeguards to manifestation. If we don’t have the ‘right dream’ we are unlikely to follow through. We won't have the determination or resilience. It's an ongoing process with considerable hurdles! That's why we must choose a goal that we really want, deep within! The good news is that we can fine-tune or modify our goal as we go. By optimally utilizing this strategy, we can manifest almost any dream! Our part is to set the right intent. Then to hold the positive vibe. We then tune-in to the synchronistic opportunities presented to us in daily life.


ALLOW THE UNIVERSE TO SHOW YOU THE WAY.

The creation process and its external manifestation is powered by Universal energies. We don't need to understand exactly how these mechanisms work! We can instead trust and allow the possibilities to align. We simply watch for synchronistic events to present themselves. Our part is to hold the intent and allow all this to happen! We just need to be open and receptive to these new opportunities as they arise! We then act on these leads or follow them to the best of our ability.

…Do you trust the manifestation process?

DON’T TRY TO FORCE OR CONTROL THE PROCESS.

It’s important to ‘allow’ the Universe to do its work. Don’t try to force or control the process. Don’t micromanage! Be open and patient. Trying to force the creation process only holds it back. This is another safeguard to the manifestation process. This process of ‘allowing’ is not a passive activity. It requires conscious awareness and consent. For the process to work, we need to actively cultivate a positive expectation. We must welcome and trust the process.


The next part is to engage with synchronistic opportunities as they arise. We follow up each clue or opportunity that resonates with us. By managing our thoughts and opportunities in this way, we significantly direct our own destiny.

…Will you engage with the opportunities that the universe provides?


WE GIVE CONSENT BY EMPOWERING A THOUGHT.

We choose which lines of thoughts we empower and pursue. By focusing on a thought, we are giving our consent to that line of thinking. Choosing to think about something gives it manifestation power. On the other hand, if you choose to not give a thought any attention, it will simply dissipate. This mechanism safeguards us from creating something that's NOT our choice. We are responsible for our choices. We have the free will to choose our thoughts. We can change our focus at any moment. This is how we give our consent. This process is sometimes called executive control or being autonomous. In this way, we constantly provide our consent along our life path. That’s whether we realize it or not!

…Can you now see how important it is to empower the right thoughts?


EXTERNAL MANIFESTATION HAS A TIME DELAY.

Manifestation doesn’t occur instantly, the moment you direct your thoughts. Our free will has a time delay function! The manifestation begins gradually after some time. This delay mechanism allows us to change our mind before it is too late. This time delay is useful in case we have any immediate second thoughts! This is yet another safeguard and safety mechanism. It allows us to change our mind, hopefully before it is too late. But be careful. If we keep doubting or double guessing ourselves then we get nowhere!

WE CAN SPEED UP THE MANIFESTATION PROCESS.

It’s possible to reduce this time delay feature. We can speed up an external manifestation by making a deeply heartfelt decision. The more heartfelt it is, the faster the manifestation process works. We hold this powerful intent for just a short period of time. If a decision feels deeply resonant or ‘just right’ this will speed up its manifestation. It needs to feel like a deep intuitive sense or an inner knowing!

…Can you now see the benefit of powerful, heartfelt intentions?


BRIEFLY VISUALIZE AND THEN MAINTAIN THE VIBE.

We only hold the original intent very gently at the back of our mind. We don't need to keep visualizing it. It's as if we already know it will manifest! In fact, we have full trust or faith that it will! So, we expect this outcome and look for any clues leading to this.


Each positive intent has a different vibration or feeling. The next step of the manifestation process is to match and maintain the same vibration as your intent. You don’t have to perfectly replicate the original intent. Just being in the general range of feeling and vibration is enough. The higher the vibe the better, for fast results.


But how do we quickly decide what to do in everyday life? What can we use as a fast and reliable guide to decision making? We have an instant guidance system that can help! In the next chapter, we will discuss this next strategy for success.


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