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Published by ScarlettCapelli on 08 May 2008

Kids And Fire Safety

Fires are the most threatening situation that a family can find themselves in. By teaching your child basic safety tips, it may save his life as well as your own.

Firefighters recommend that your family has a fire exit plan. This can involve drawing a map and practicing getting out of the house quickly. If you have grandchildren, you may also want to practice with them in your home since they are not as familiar with the layout as they are at their own house. You need to figure out the quickest way to exit the house from every area, including basements and attics. After all, if a fire does break out you do not know where everyone will be at that particular moment.

Once you have decided the best ways to exit the house, you need to pick a spot that your family can meet after leaving the burning building. This way you can make a quick check to make sure everyone is out and this ensures that no one goes back in needlessly, although you should teach your children that they should never reenter the building.

If you do not already have them, you should install fire alarms on every level of your house and particularly near sleeping areas. By detecting fires at their earliest stages, these devices have been proven to save lives. It is recommended that you check these alarms once a month to make sure that they are functioning properly.

In case a fire actually breaks out, you should teach your child to remain close to the floor and crawl towards the exit, leaving everything behind. As fires burn they produce toxic fumes that rise, so the cleanest air is towards the floor. When your child is leaving a room that requires opening a door, he should feel the door handle. If the handle is hot to the touch, he should not open the door. He should find an alternative route through another door or even a window if possible. A hot door handle means that the fire is on the other side. The vacuum created by opening the door can pull the fire into the room right on top of your child.

You should also teach your child the “stop, drop, and roll’ method in case his clothes would catch on fire. This method is very simple. If his clothes are on fire, the child should stop right where he is and drop on the ground. Covering his face with his hands, the child should roll back and forth again and again until the flames are smothered. This is something that you may also want to practice with your children, especially the younger ones.

Along with teaching your child how to escape fire safely, you should also teach him fire prevention. These are simple rules that children can easily remember. You should teach them that matches and lighters are not to be played with. Candles that are burning and stoves are also off limits as well as heaters and open fires. A child should never cook without the presence of an adult. Gasoline and other flammable liquids should not be touched by children under any circumstances.

By teaching your fire safety, you can help ensure his safety if a fire does occur. The main goal of all these recommendations is to enable the whole family to make it out of the burning house intact. You can replace your possessions but you cannot replace them.

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Published by ScarlettCapelli on 08 May 2008

Kids And Electrical Safety

When teaching kids about bicycle safety and fire safety, as well as safety on the Internet, many parents forget to teach their children about electrical safety. There are a few simple rules that you need to teach your child about electricity and electrical appliances.

The most important rule for children is not to stick anything into electrical outlets. For small children under four years of age, you may want to purchase electrical outlet covers. These accessories are small plastic covers that plug right into the outlet so that any spare plug-ins are covered. For older children over five years of age, you need to explain to them that electricity is dangerous and that by sticking objects into outlets can cause them to get electrocuted or possibly start a fire.

As well as electrical outlets, you should also teach your children not to stick objects into appliances. These can also cause an electrical shock. Children should also not tear apart or try to fix electrical appliances. These devices are much more complicated than they look, and any short circuit in them can again cause electrical fires or electrocution. You should also teach them to tell an adult if they notice any appliances sparking or having a funny smell. Many fires are started by appliances that are continuously plugged in, such as toasters and coffee makers and your child may notice a problem before you do.

The bathroom can be one of the most dangerous rooms in your house. You should teach your child to be careful with electrical devices around water, such as radios around the bathroom sink or bathtub. They should also be careful around the kitchen sink and anywhere else where there may be standing water inside you home.

If the power should go out in the house, advise your children never to touch the fuse box. If someone does not know what they are doing, touching a 220-volt connector can cause enough electricity to seriously injure and even kill a small child.

Children should also be aware of the dangers of electricity that are outside as well. You should teach them that mud puddles are the same as the bathtub, and that they should not get anything electrical around them. They should also not climb electrical towers, telephone poles, or any other structure that has power lines attached to it. Children should avoid any contact with electrical lines, such as when they are flying a kite or a radio-controlled airplane.

Along with human-made electricity, children should be made aware of the dangers of electrical storms. These are those storms that have lightning and thunder, although the lightning may not always be visible. If the children are at the park, they should seek cover at the closest shelter or building. At home, they should get inside immediately and remain there until the storm passes. Many children are fascinated by lightning storms and may forget how dangerous these forces of nature can be. Adults are just as guilty of this fascination as children. Many adults have been struck by lightning on golf courses and other areas where they should not have been during a storm, while others enjoy sitting in the backyard in metal lawn chairs to watch the sky. Again, adults and children alike should remember that lightning can be deadly. Seek shelter and remain inside until the storm has passed.

Electricity is responsible for many of the conveniences that we enjoy in our every day life. It is also important to teach your children to respect it as the powerful force that it is.

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Published by ScarlettCapelli on 08 May 2008

Kids And Stress In School

Many children do not do well in school because they are suffering from school stress. This situation leads to anxiety and depression in these children, so it is important to know what the symptoms are and what a parent can do to help eliminate this type of stress.

Experts feel that school stress can be caused by a number of things. A child may become stressed if he doesn’t know the answer to a question. He may also become upset over incomplete or late homework. He may have trouble understanding some of his subjects and he may just give up.

As a child becomes stressed at school, he may exhibit some symptoms at home. If you notice that your child is becoming irritable and nervous, he may be having problems at school. As he becomes more worried, your child may begin to lose his appetite and his sleep may become disturbed. He may become depressed and begin to suffer from headaches. If you think that your child is suffering from school-related stress, there are several things that you can do to help him.

You should talk to him to try to discover the cause of his stress. If he is having a hard time in one of his subjects, you can spend extra time helping him in that area. You can go over his studies step by step to make sure that he understands it and encourage him to ask questions. You can make up tests that cover the things that your child has been studying to help him feel comfortable taking tests at school. If you are not familiar with the subject, check into getting a tutor to help him. If the child is turning incomplete homework, you can make sure that he takes the time he needs to complete his work. You need to remember to be calm and supportive. If you become impatient, this will add to your child’s feelings of inadequacy and can accelerate his stress.

Some children’s stress is related to eating and sleeping habits. You should provide your child with nutritious meals and make sure that he is eating breakfast. You may want to make his bedtime earlier to make sure that your child is getting plenty of sleep.

Your child may be trying to do too much, especially if he participates in extra curricular activities. If your child is involved in three different activities, you may want to cut him down to one. Ask him which activity is his favorite, and then give him your full support in that one area.

Your child may also have a problem managing his time. This is usually a result of poor organizational skills. You can draw up a schedule for him that includes adequate study time as well as time for other activities. You may also encourage him to lay his clothes and books for school out the night before. This eliminates any stress in the morning because the child does not have to rush around to find something.

Children can suffer from stress just as adults do. By organizing his time and supporting him in his school work, you can help your child to learn to relax and this can help him to become a better student

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Published by ScarlettCapelli on 08 May 2008

Teaching Your Children Manners

Manners are something that most people learned at a young age and remained with them the rest of their lives. You can begin teaching a child manners as soon as he is old enough to understand you.

One of the first things that most parents teach their young children is to say “please” and “thank you.” You can also teach them to say “you’re welcome” when someone thanks them. You should explain that all these phrases display respect and appreciation.

Not interrupting when other people are speaking is also something that most parents teach children at a very young age. You should explain to the child that no one can understand what is being said if too many people are talking at the same time. You should also explain that he should quietly wait his turn. You can place your arm around the child to assure him that you are aware that he is being patient. When it is the child’s turn to speak, pay attention to what he is saying. Point out that not interrupting is a way of showing respect to the person who is speaking and shows an interest in what they are saying.

Other good manners that you can teach your child include the rule of no name calling. Explain to your child that even if it is meant in fun, name calling is disrespectful and can hurt the other person’s feelings. Reinforce the idea that your child should not make fun of other children, especially in regard to their appearance or other factors that the other child cannot help. This would be a good time to have a discussion with your child about disabled people, be it mentally or physically. Your child should learn not to stare at a disabled individual or to ask them embarrassing questions, although most disabled people will usually appreciate the fact that your child is young and answer any questions as best they can. You should teach your child to show the same respect to these individuals as they do to everyone else.

A child should also be taught to greet anyone who visits your house. You should explain to them that by greeting people, this makes the guest feel welcomed and comfortable in your home.

Cleaning up after himself whether at home or at a friend’s house is is an early step to teaching a child to take responsibility. You should explain to a child that it is polite to clean up any mess before you leave someone’s house as well as your own. It also shows respect for the person’s house.

You should also teach your child to be a good sport. If he wins a game, tell him to encourage the child who lost, while if he loses then he should congratulate the winner and not sulk over it. Stress the fact that ‘it is only a game.”

Manners are an important tool for children to have as they grow into adults. Teaching your child to respect other people and their feelings is a key element that will allow your child to grow into a warm and caring adult.

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Published by ScarlettCapelli on 08 May 2008

Tips To Teach Your Child About Safety On The Internet

In today’s society, children are using the Internet at school as well as at home. This technology can be an invaluable learning and reference tool. Children also use it to stay in touch with their friends and to make new ones in chat rooms. The problem with this type of socializing is that your child has no idea who is really in the chat room with them. Many sexual predators pose as teenagers to lure real kids into meeting them. By teaching your child a few safety tips, you can help them to avoid contact with predators.

Most children are taught to stay away from strangers at a very young age. You just need to point out to them that they should do the same thing on the Internet. If another “child” strikes up a conversation in a chat room, it is all right to talk about general things. If this person begins to talk about things that makes your child uncomfortable or begins to use profane language, your child should log off immediately without responding. By not responding and logging off, your child may indirectly give the person on the Internet the message that they have went too far, and that person may avoid talking to your child in the future. Your child should also inform you or another trusted adult about the conversation.

Another safety tip for children is not to give their full name, address, telephone number, or e-mail address to anyone in the chat room that they do not know personally. If a person asks for this information or for the child’s password, the child should log off immediately and find a trusted adult.

Another good safety tip for adults as well as children is that you or your child should not post your child’s picture on the Internet. Your child should not use their picture with their user name, as a predator can track your child through different chat rooms by just looking for this name. Bothe adults and children should not have pictures posted on sites that require a valid e-mail address either. Predators with a flair for computers can use this address to track down your personal information, such as your social security number. After obtaining this, it is simple to find your name, home address and telephone number. You should also avoid sending pictures via your cell phone, as just one wrong number can send information to the wrong person.

If your child has been chatting with another child over a period of time and the other child wants to arrange for the two to meet, you can agree to a meeting only in your presence. If it is another child, the two children can plan a fun-filled day. If an adult shows up, inform your local authorities immediately.

There are many sites on the Internet that are “adult-only.” You should teach you child that if he accidently gets into one of these sites, he should leave it immediately. Some computer devices “lock out” your children and allow them to only visit Web sites that are appropriate. These devices may be a good investment, especially with curious teenagers in the house.

Again, the Internet is a valuable learning tool, but unfortunately it can be dangerous in the hands of some users as well. Teaching your child to practice safety first on the Internet as well as the outside world can be a valuable lesson.

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